ENGL 165 – 09 Fall ’24: Letter To My Future Self

 

Dear Future Abby,

           Transferring here as a sophomore took away one year of being a part of the Longwood community. I am still new to everything and am trying my best to branch out, but I hope you took advantage of the shorter time you had and put yourself out there. Longwood, as you know, offers an abundance of clubs and organizations. Seeing as a major part of your heart belongs to caring for animals, maybe you joined the STEP program where you train dogs to become service pets. You might have also found clubs related to your interests in debate and political themes, possibly researching into the different classes that incorporate those ideas as well. I am currently in a game club, do I stick with it every year of college? I also received a bid from the ABY Sorority the other day and accepted it. I am hopeful that you made friends with all of the sisters, current and new, and helped expand the sorority itself. Though it might be a bit of a reach, I hope the road eventually leads you to becoming an important member of the sorority and possibly one that can make actual change happen.

         When it comes to your academic successes, I hope you maintained a 3.2 GPA or higher, simply because I understand that some classes will be difficult and it is okay to not get a 100% on every assignment. I believe that you majored in English flawlessly and you took classes out of your comfort zone. There are moments in which I think that English is not the right fit for me, but I know you persuaded me to stick with it and kept me going. You should also have your next steps lined up so that you are not fearful of your future, or at least I hope you do. Right now, it is impossible for me to imagine the direction you are heading, but I know that your experience at Longwood was life changing. Even with the shortened amount of time we have here, I believe it did not deter you from making changes with yourself and the community around you. 

Sincerely,

Your past self

Citations:

Alpha Beta Psi. (2025). Alpha Beta Psi. Lancer Link.

https://lancerlink.longwood.edu/organization/alphabetapsi 

STEP. (2025). Service-Dog and Education Program at Longwood University. Lancer Link.

https://lancerlink.longwood.edu/organization/step

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Who Will I Be in Four Years?

 

Dear future self,

As of right now I reside at Longwood University as a freshman. Although this experience is expensive, think of it as the next step to your goal. I haven’t joined any clubs or organizations yet, but this is just a stepping stone. I hope that you eventually find a place here on campus. I haven’t done anything yet, but what exactly do you plan to achieve?

In the next four years, I see myself  being very active on campus. I want to join clubs and organizations that represent/support wellness. I definitely want to be apart of the National Honor Society of Psychology.  Including, being a chairperson for the society. One of my biggest goals, is to work with service dogs. Within next four years, I should be training puppies to be service dogs. One of my top five goals, would be making the dean’s list. I foresee myself branching out more with my peers, especially networking with mentors during internships. Using my future networking skills, I will utilize my resources to be as successful as possible. Essentially, I will have found ways to properly maintain my peace. As far as morally, I hope that I am still following all my standards for myself. Most importantly, I hope that by now I’ve found a balance that works tremendously for me.

Overall Angel, I just want you to continue to be you. Yes, this is a different ball park, but knowing you, you’ll figure it out. This is just another experience that will be eventful, but leave a meaningful mark on your journey. Knowing you, just the idea of “adulting” sends you somewhere, but by now, you should definitely have adjusted to it. Continue to blossom, be outgoing, and allow God to order your steps as always.

Sincerely,

Freshman Angel

 

 

 

 

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Blog Post 1- Reese Sherman

 

Dear Reese,

I hope you are reading this with all the Lancer pride after finishing the 120 credits you needed to make your dreams come true. The dream of becoming a teacher is no longer far away in the future. It is happening now for you. During the last four to five years I hope you challenged yourself more than you thought you could and never failed to reach out to professors, you asked for help when you needed it most, and did not let failure conquer the success you worked so hard for. 

I hope you fully embraced the traditions at Longwood that make being a Lancer such a blessing. Hopefully, you never missed the highlights like battling in Color Wars, getting muddy during Oozeball or fountain jumping before the first day of classes. I hope you spent time crown hopping around campus for good luck and visiting Joanie on a Stony, Joanie on a Ponie, and Joanie all Alonie as much as possible. I hope you never missed a sports game and of course never lacked the true Lancer spirit.

I hope you were able to join the club swim team at some point during your time in college. Never passed up a late night Walmart or cookout trip with friends, laughing uncontrollably with friends. At this point I hope you are not just leaving college with a degree but friendships that will last you a lifetime. 

I also hope that you took on some leadership roles like being a peer mentor for incoming freshmen. Or taking a step farther and being a tour guide for high schoolers that are trying to figure out where they want to go to college.

Most importantly, as you are closing out your college era of your life and step into the one you have dreamed of since you were little. I hope you step into your classroom with pride. While you let the young you leap with joy because it finally happened. We made it.

 

Much love,

Reese

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Who will I be in the next 4 years

 

 Dear Arleth,

This is the next chapter of your life and you must take every opportunity you can to succeed as a student. Meaning, you must prioritize school over anything that could pull you away from becoming the best version of yourself. Use all your time wisely even when taking breaks because the choices you make affect your future. It is going to be very challenging, that is why it is also very important that you make sure to take care of yourself as well. Rest, learn a new hobby, eat, and socialize. All of this will help you maintain good habits and good academic learning.

 I hope you can accomplish your goals, figuring out what you actually want to be in life, that you get to do a lot of hands-on experience and earn the knowledge and skills that you need to pursue that field. That you can do what you love and contribute to the community in some way. Make sure to get involved in organizations or even better, maybe challenge yourself and start your own club where people can also be part of and benefit from it. Get out of your comfort zone and become more open to try new challenging programs, complete internships, apply to a job related to your program and continue earning knowledge and skills from the experiences you can get.

I hope that you can get a job where you can interact with animals, especially farm animals. That way you can experience the type of life you would have once you reach my goal, working in a vet clinic has been one of your many goals before entering to vet school which is a great way to make good connections after you graduate from college. Pursuing  biology will provide you a lot of career choices to choose if the first option happens to not interest you anymore. so work on figuring out what you want to do for a living. Learn and grow, and don’t forget that it was worth the wait and the hard work.

Sincerely, Arleth Gomez.

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Week One.

 

Dear Future Me,

I’m writing from the first chapter of your Longwood story. This week’s readings reminded me that reflection isn’t just about looking back, it’s about writing forward, like leaving breadcrumbs for the person you’ll become.

Here’s what I hope you’ve built by the time you graduate: a strong foundation in psychology, not just through classes but through real experiences. I hope you’ve worked closely with professors on research that made you curious about how the mind copes with trauma, stress, and resilience. Maybe you even presented at a conference or published in a student journal. I want you to be proud of the questions you asked and the ways you tried to answer them.

I hope you got involved on campus beyond academics. Join Psychology Club or Psi Chi and surround yourself with people who are just as fascinated by human behavior as you are. Volunteer, too,whether that means helping at campus wellness events, supporting first responders through mental health initiatives, or finding internships that connect theory to practice. These experiences will help you grow into the therapist you’ve always imagined becoming.

I also hope you didn’t just push yourself academically but cared for yourself personally. Use your accommodations without hesitation, go to counseling if you need to, and build a support system that reminds you you’re not alone. College can be overwhelming, but you’ll get through it by leaning on others as much as they lean on you.

And please, make memories outside the classroom. Late-night study sessions that turn into laughter, walks across campus when your brain needed a reset, friendships that became family, and moments when you realized you belong here.

If you haven’t done all this, that’s okay, life is a draft, not a final copy. Revise as you go. What matters most is that you leave Longwood with confidence in who you are and excitement for who you’re still becoming.

— Me, Week One

letter to my future me

 

  In four years, I plan on being a speech pathologist assistant which requires a bachelor’s degree. And later on, go back to school for the graduate program to then become a speech pathologist. And I personally want to work with children or young adults either in the school setting or in an actual office because I feel like I could find my job more enjoyable with that age group than I would as an adult and the elderly and children are always more exciting and funnier to work with. And I would probably later on after getting my master’s in communication sciences and disorder I would later on get a minor or major in social work because that was my second option and have gotten to know a lot of people in that major and learned a lot about it and would enjoy that as a second future career. I hope I have an exciting experience at Longwood through all four years like I have had already. And I found myself a group of people along with joining a lot of clubs including sign language, a few Christian ones and maybe later on being a manager for a team at longwood because I was managing in high school for the baseball team but also doing some volunteer work for the Farmville community. And also minor in American sign language and also possibly get a degree to later become an interpreter.  And I hope I get to be able to have a lot of hands-on experience with my major along with getting to assist children. Because for my major to me my main focus would be being able to help children but also getting to work with them.  And I’m more excited about what I could do with having a degree in American sign language and where that could lead me.

First blog post

 

In the future I hope I am more outgoing and not scared to start a conversation with people. I hope I can keep my grades up and continue to improve in my major. I want to take everything I learned and apply it to my goals. Keep improving in baseball and try as many things as possible. Get outside your comfort zone not so much that you get into trouble but enough that you experience things you haven’t before. Make long lasting friendships and be someone people can rely on. Hopefully your still being active and playing sports especially baseball and maybe even trying some that you haven’t played before. You got to keep working and get some money too and don’t be stupid with it. I hope I at least went to one party in college to see what it’s like. Academically I hope I was smart enough to use the recourses given to me like office hours and tutoring. I hope I managed my time well leaving enough time for studying but still being able to go and have some fun. I hope I can be social enough to not become a random guy walking across campus every day. If you get an internship anywhere for wildlife conservation, make sure you do your best not to fall behind. I hope I can apply the internship well to my end goal. If you find that something isn’t working like you thought, take some time and think about what you can change. Don’t get so overwhelmed by trying everything that it makes you wonder if you can’t do any of it at all. Make sure you be smart while at longwood and become the first in your family to ever graduate from college. I hope I turn out great after the four years and also don’t forget to use the gym.

Who Will You Be in Four Years?

 

Dear future Autumn,

I’m not really sure how to start this, writing to my future self feels kind of awkward. There’s so many “what ifs”. I’ll start off with the fact that I hope you’re living a life that feels right, not one that just looks right. And I hope you’re reading this shaking your head, wishing you could go back in time to tell me that it was all worth it. I hope that you’ve continued to be courageous and steadfast even in the darkest of days. But most of all, I hope you haven’t changed. I hope you still find joy in the little things like the sitting in silence in the common area with your roommates with the occasional giggles from something we saw on our phones or going to the gym to make awful attempts at shooting a free throw with Lincoln, Quinn, and Anthony or going out on late night walks and trying to find the planets among the stars. Speaking of Quinn, we had some awesome roommates our freshman year! They sure did make college more bearable, along with Lincoln and Anthony. I plan on trying out for the softball club team, I’m confident I can make the team, if not I’ll be a little disappointed but it’s better to say I tried and failed then I didn’t try at all, am I right! I hope you continue to try out for the team, and I hope you made the most out of everything. I hope you go out whenever you get the chance to and explore new connections with people instead of staying within your roommates. If I’m being honest, I’m not sure where or who I’ll be in four years, so I hope you’ve at least accomplished graduating and going into grad school. That’s all I ask. You don’t have to have everything figured out, life can be so unpredictable. All I ask is that we become successful enough to live a stable life and help dad out whenever we can!  You should be entering grad school right about now, now that I’m thinking about it. Are you still planning to major in pre-med? Are you still hoping to become a psychiatrist? Or have you gone down a different route? Maybe into a different field of being able to help people with mental disorders? Either way, I know any choice we make will be the right one for us.

With lots of love, your freshman self

 

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Who Will You Be in Four Years?

 

Dear future self,

It is my second week at college and there are so many emotions going through my mind. I am so excited to start my first year at Longwood. I hope you are reading this letter with pride knowing that you accomplished everything you dreamed and more.

For starters, I am hoping you took advantage of all the amazing opportunities that Longwood has to offer. Please tell me you still have the strong desire to be a labor and deliver nurse like we did in freshman year. Did you get outside of your comfort zone and take hard classes? I want to know if you have continued to stay as proactive as we were the first week of college. I hope you have made an influence with your education in your nursing career. One big thing I hope you take with you is to remember to have fun because college is more than just an education, it’s a new chapter.

Aside from academics, I want to know if you got involved at Longwood. I know the first couple of weeks of college we were timid about clubs and Greek life, but I hope you did join some sort of organization. I hope you have explored Farmville because it truly is a beautiful town. Did you go to all the basketball games like we hoped to? I hope you made lots of new friends and decided to move on from the boy from high school. New friends come with time so as long as you chose to be patient, I am sure by the time you are reading this you are filled with so many amazing friendships. I can trust that you chose to embrace all the challenges that were thrown your way. All the experiences you have faced along the way has built you into the incredible nurse we had planned to be. Remember that college is such a beautiful thing, it is supposed to help us grow and find our own independence.

Overall, I hope you stayed true to yourself. I hope you took advantage of the clubs, social events, and even academic activities. This journey should’ve helped you gain a better outlook on life, and it is my wish that you take everything you gained from Longwood University and carry it with you forever. I have no doubt that by the time you read this you will be working twelve-hour shifts helping mothers deliver their sweet babies.

With love,

Present Kristen

 

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A Letter to My Future Self

 

Dear Ethan,

I hope your journey at Longwood has been one to remember. I hope you have made everlasting connections with teachers and students all around campus; connections that will push you into whatever future career you decide to pursue. You were nervous about going into this “uncharted territory” and apprehensive about being away from family.  I could not imagine a life outside of high school, without lacrosse and all my home town friends that you have known ever since you were a kid. Speaking of lacrosse, I heard there is a club team at Longwood that your roommates have been talking about. Troy and Caleb have never played before so I hope we can all become better and learn from each other. I hope you’ve pursued the club team and have traveled all over the United States playing great teams and staying in shape. The free food at the dining hall on campus definitely has not helped you very much.

I also hope you have achieved the degree you have been striving for ever since you were a kid. Remember the times Lolo would always talk about you getting that college degree he was never able to achieve? I hope you have remembered that and it motivates you. I hope you have sticked with “Longwood/Hampton Sydney Young Life” and continuing to grow in my faith. As you know, when you started at Longwood, your faith was such a big part of your life and I hope you have continued to find like-minded people who help you to heighten your connection with God. Even though we have been here for not even 2 weeks yet, I hope you have gotten involved in the communities around campus like greek life. When I first came to Longwood, I remember being introduced to Drew, who is an executive for Alpha Sigma Pi here at Longwood. You have practically met all the brothers at this point.

I anticipate that you will get involved in all the interesting things that this community and campus provide and you have made the most out of your time here. See you in 4 years.

Sincerely,

Your Past Self

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