Blog post 4
As I am now entering my 6th week of school, I feel as though I am experiencing a lot of what Sarah is going through. Like her, I came into college with confidence and excitement but also a little nervous about stepping into the real world for the first time by myself. The first thing I found myself having to get adjusted to were my classes. Compared to high school, college is faster paced, and it is all up to you to stay on top of your work. It required a level of independence that I wasn’t quite ready for as I was so used to being reminded by my teachers when assignments were due and I’ve already found myself struggling to keep up at times. Another thing I find myself struggling to balance is my social life. But as Sarah did, I’ve learned that reaching out for help makes a huge difference. Something I experienced that was different than what Sarah went through was her roommate struggles. I love my roommates. You could say I lucked out; we all get along very well and there haven’t been any arguments or disagreements so far. We actually had this conversation, me and my three other roommates, we agreed that we are all so understanding that all we have to do is discuss things or ask to borrow things and so far, it’s worked out amazingly. Something I find myself mirroring Sarah’s experience is the feeling of being with friends from back home. I miss them. As much as I am excited to go home for the holidays, I find myself getting uneasy. Like Sarah, I can’t wait to see my family and catch up but I’m scared that when I come back after break, I’ll feel like I’m starting all over. I’m scared I’ll lose all the progress I’ve made so far. However, I am also confident that I will be able to handle it better than the first time now that I have experienced the struggles firsthand. Being in college has helped me find balance. It has helped me gain the independence I didn’t have, and it has taught me that the challenges never stop, you just learn to overcome them better over time.
