Do YOU Know When You Register
Coming back from break felt a lot like what Sarah is going through in the book, that weird mix of excitement and exhaustion. Being home was nice because everything felt familiar again. My own bed, my family, and not having to worry about my school work. Even though I only got 2 days of fall break, coming back here to be with my teammates was so much fun! It was strange coming back to my dorm and adjusting to sharing space with my roommate again. Luckily, no dead fish situation here, but it definitely took a day or two to get back into my routine. Registration is coming up soon, and I’m already stressing a little about getting the classes I want. I’ve been looking at my schedule and trying to balance what I need for my major with things that actually sound interesting. It still feels like there’s a lot about college that’s brand new, like how fast time goes by, and how different professors can be with their expectations. Sarah’s experience at her big midwestern school seems a lot more chaotic than mine here at Longwood. I actually like that Longwood is smaller. I feel like it’s easier to get to know people, and professors actually remember your name. I don’t think I’d like being one of thousands of students in a lecture hall. Since being here, I’ve noticed that I eat dinner super early or super late due to late-night practices. I also see that I only talk to my two best friends from my high school. With Christmas break coming up soon, I am looking forward to seeing them and my family. I don’t get a spring break because of cheer, which sucks, but at least I get to be with my friends. It’s also weird to think about being gone from Longwood for that long. I’ve started to feel like this place is my new normal. Looking ahead, I want to finish my freshman year strong. I’m planning to stay on top of assignments, manage my time better, and make sure I still make time for friends and self-care. College has already taught me a lot about balance, and I think Sarah and I are both figuring that out in our own ways.
Dear Mallory,
I am experiencing most of the same emotions after coming back from fall break. I do miss having time to myself, but I have also adjusted to always having people around me so it felt odd being alone. I think everyone is stressed out about registration especially as freshman it is harder to get the classes we want. It will all end up working out in the end. Having the ability to meet with our advisor before registration is a big help and I am sure Sarah wouldn’t have that opportunity at her school. I can agree with you about our long winter break. Coming back for the new spring semester might be an adjustment but I am excited to go home and spend time with my friends from high school. Being at Longwood has helped me gain lots of balance within my life too and I definitely appreciate all the skills have learned from being here so far just like Sarah has in the book.
Hi Mallory,
I can really relate to what you wrote about coming back from fall break feeling excited but also exhausted. For me, I honestly did not feel like a real break because I still had so many assignments to finish. I spent most of the time working on school projects, checking off assignments that need to be done, and planning for registration for my spring classes.Even during break, I couldn’t stop thinking about schoolwork and deadlines and getting them done.
I also understand how you felt adjusting after being home. It can be hard to get back into a routine once you’ve had even a short break. Reading your post reminded me of how much responsibility and planning college really takes, especially when you’re trying to balance everything. I can relate to the pressure of wanting to do well and stay organized while still finding time for yourself.
One big difference for me is that you live on campus and I commute about 40 minutes each way. Sometimes I wish I lived in a dorm because it seems easier to make friends and feel more connected to campus life. Between driving and completing assignments, I barely have time to socialize or rest. I really admire how you’re able to manage your classes, cheer, and still spend time with friends.
Even with all the stress, I truly love Longwood. Everyone here is so nice, and the professors and staff are always helpful and patient. They really make a difference and help students feel supported. College has been a learning experience in time management and balance for me, and I agree with you, we’re both finding our rhythm and making progress one step at a time.
—Hannah