How Does My Experience Compare to Sarah’s

     Throughout the first sixty-eight pages of graphic novel “Freshman Year” by Sarah Mai, the author shows how the transition between high school and college is a real adjustment for anyone, especially for anyone who’s lived with their parents for so long. This comparison reality resonated with me and my situation because this is something I personally related to.

     In the story, Sarah talks about how she’s going to miss “everything”. Similar to Sarah, I felt like the summer before starting college was a real blend of excitement and anxiousness. There was definitely real anticipation about starting a new life hours away from the place I’ve called home for 18 years. In addition to this “moving away”, her relationship with Finn seemed to crumble. Even though this isn’t my personal relationship, it felt very similar to how I left my friends back home. Although they have their own lives and college journeys now, it definitely felt weird saying goodbye to many people who I have known for my whole life. One other thing I noticed about Sarah’s story is her lack of confidence. Throughout the story, she continues to stress and worry about whether she will fit in with the people around her. She feels this way especially with her new roommate.That consistent pressure to find yourself isn’t something I personally felt but I definitely know how much that can affect you as a person. I was definitely nervous but I knew I would be okay because fortunately I know my current roommates because we were friends from back home. Another thing I noticed was how Sarah felt with her parents. After she was moved in and everyone left, she felt very similar to how I felt. My parents are obviously a huge part of my life and them stepping away was something I’ve felt before. 

     In general, I felt that both my summer and Sarah’s was filled with a crazy amount of change, mystery, and a weird sense of self-reflection. It was really cool to see Sarah going through situations similar to mine, almost comforting. Being a fictional story, it is cool to see how much of this story so far has resonated with me. I’m excited to see if Sarah’s college life is similar to mine.

Ethan Reed